To my lovely ladies: At some point, we have to stop having checklists and start having standards. Yes, he’s cute, but what does his spirit look like? Yes, he’s educated, but when was the last time he read his Bible? Yes, he’s successful, but does he tithe? Yes, pays for you, but does he pray for you? Checklists are OK, but when you strip away all of the things on the surface, be sure that who you find beneath is someone worth sharing your world with…and more importantly, be sure that the woman you are compliments the man you want him to be.